First off, my apologies to anyone reading these for two things, my lack of entries and the length of this entry.
Being a Dad again and challenges you don’t foresee…
So my last entry was on the 15th April, my son Harvey is now 7 weeks old and this is a time where I remember why one of the reasons I started to improve my fitness was so that I had enough energy to be a Father who was involved and supportive as much as possible.
Over the last weeks since my last entries I have tried to maintain training and diet but a few things have challenged this, firstly I had a minor Op, wont go into much detail but those of you out there will know what this is, I needed 24-48 hours complete rest and I would not be able to run for a couple of weeks, or so the doctor said.
Firstly, complete rest is impossible with a new born baby and as much as my wife tried to give me rest, I could not sit there and do nothing as our Son proceeded to throw up every feed…( I will come back to this point)
secondly..I was running day 8 after op, 10k in fact and a few days later 20k..I will come back to that later also.
The constant vomiting my son was experianceing continued for a week without us knowing what to do, every feed, he would throw up this went on for a week, visits to doctors and calls to NHS Direct did not give us any solutions or rather they did but not the correct one, finally on our second visit to hospital a senior Doctor diagnosed Pyloric stenosis, by this time Harvey was looking dehydrated and not as a baby should look. The doctor immediately admitted him and got him on a IV drip and tube to drain his stomach in preparation for the operation he would need.
This operation could only be performed in London and on a Sunday evening we was rushed up to the Royal London Hospital by ambulance, lights and all.
On the Monday he had is op…and after some nervous feeds, we was on our way home Wednesday. So after 10 days of sleepless nights on couches, hospital chairs and anywhere we could, it was good to be home. Jill and I was exhausted..and I thank my training that gave me the strength I needed to look after Jill & Harvey throughout this time. The emotional drain was another story, seeing your little son with IV Drips and tubes in is age, seeing him put to sleep with the tiniest of face masks is a harrowing sight but the little Spartan still maneged to put up a struggle before looking at me square in the eye before going into a sleep for his OP.
The smile he gave us when after the OP will stay with me forever..and a lesson to us all about living for what is happening now.
Running..
I had decided that in May I would take 2 Skipper records…Furthest distance run in a month (113k) and furthest distance in a single run, 21.1K (Nathan)
I knew it would be tough as I was going to be out of action with me “Op” but what I didn’t know was that Harvey was going to be ill…the task became a tough one as the month progressed.
Still…I kept moving forward, currently as off the 28th May I am on 96k, so I have some work to do with only 4 days left…as to the longest run, that will have to wait for next Month as finding 2.5 hours out of my day at the moment is really challenging..and asking too much of my wife.
I did however attempt the Half Marathon distance and managed 20k, this is the furthest I have ever ran, 13k being my furthest prior to this. another 2k on that run seems so small now but at the time, I just didn’t have it…I learnt so much though, so the lessons was a valuable one. I learned that I needed to be more hydrated, I learnt that a planned route is essential, whilst I had planned the first 17 ish K, the rest I hadn’t so I could not visualise the end. I learnt the importance of a good diet, I learnt that I should have built up to this distance. I also now know what to expect, physically and mentally next time.
Diet
My eating habits have been all over the place…whilst recovering from OP and whilst in hospital, emotional eating was in full effect, that combined with the euphoria of a new child and the emotional strain of returning to work all made for a very inconsistent diet.
Again this week I will attempt to bring in line my eating habits and I am immediately reminded of Yoda saying “There is no try, DO or DO NOT”
I also feel like I am putting on weight, my shirts feel snugger, my belly looks bigger…is this all in my head?? I have still been active but this reminds me of another little phrase posted by my son..” You cant out exercise a bad diet”
In June Nathan has set the challenge of fasting for 96 hours.. with a min of 24 hours, so not all in one go. If handled sensibly fasting has proven benefits.
The Spartan Beast.
So the Beast is just 24 weeks away, its over 12 miles of hell and I have only just ran 12 miles, which was tough…so there is a lot of work to do, a lot of focus is needed, how do you juggle being a Father, Husband and Spartan?
I can only do this with support from my wife Jill, some careful planning,motivation from my boys and determination.. I know I can do it but its difficult being selfish with time when others need you, so I will try to be smart with my time and with my training but above all i will keep moving forward!!!
Arrroooo!!!!!




